70+ years
of legal expertise

70+ years
of legal expertise


Expert family law advice when you need it most

KWW Solicitors has extensive experience dealing with family legal issues, from divorce and separation to financial settlements. Our head of Family Law matters David Anstee is here to offer a sympathetic ear and expert advice to anyone who is going through a difficult time in their relationship, and to help them understand the options available to them.

We would always encourage couples who have decided to split to take a non-confrontational path, and we work with them to reach amicable decisions.

The introduction of no-fault divorce in April 2022 has had a major impact on the way proceedings work and the relative ease of the process. It does appear to be reducing the hostility, which is to be welcomed.

However, danger still lurks for the uninitiated, particularly in the area of finances. There is increasing evidence that women especially are failing to secure what is entitled to them through their lack of focus on pension sharing.

An early chat with David Anstee will help you understand what is at stake.

Our Family Law Services include:

  • Divorce & Separation
  • Cohabitation (living together)
  • Financial disputes
  • Children
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Putting your best interests first

It goes without saying that divorce and separation can be traumatic for everyone, even more so when children are involved.

Unfortunately, we know that it’s not always possible for both parties to come to an amicable agreement, so rest assured that we’ll always be ready to protect the best interests of our clients and help them achieve what’s right and what’s fair.


Finding the best option for you

The first consideration for anyone thinking about divorce or separation is to seek advice from a specialist family lawyer at an early stage.

David Anstee is an accredited Resolution expert, which means he is required to conduct matters in a constructive and non-confrontational way.

David will advise on all of the options available to you, so you can make an informed decision on the solution that works best for you and your family.


Easing your worries over cost

We recognise that for many people embarking on separation or divorce, legal fees are often an additional concern.

We feel it is important to discuss all the potential cost aspects of your case during the first meeting. This is to ensure that you are not confronted with any unexpected legal bills.

We will assess the issues involved and whether you and your partner will be able to reach an agreement, possibly with the benefit of mediation, or will have to use the court process.

We can offer different payment options of your legal fees, including payment from your share of the matrimonial assets, if appropriate.

Bear in mind that the more you and your partner can agree, the less you will pay in legal fees.

Fixed Fee Initial Consultation

We offer all new clients an initial fixed fee consultation for £225 plus VAT. During that initial meeting we can provide an estimate of what your costs are likely to be.


A deeper dive for those who have more questions

There are many things to think about when going through a divorce. It is likely to mean changes to where and how you live, as well as changes to your finances. This can be further complicated if children are involved.

It is a huge change in your life and can be a very difficult and emotional time. The first consideration for anyone thinking about divorce is to get advice from a Specialist Family Lawyer early on. Here at KWW Solicitors, David Anstee is an accredited expert with Resolution (formerly the Solicitors Family Law Association).

Members of Resolution are required to conduct matters in a constructive and non-confrontational way. David will advise on the available options so you can decide the best way forward for you and your family.

As well as discussing the Court procedure with you, David will advise on the alternatives when resolving any issues there may be in relation to finances or children, so that Court proceedings are always a last resort.

One of the options is to negotiate through solicitors. This involves you and your solicitor discussing the options best for you and negotiating with your spouse and their legal representatives to try to reach an agreement. This can be done through correspondence or at a round table meeting.

Another possibility is mediation. This involves you and your spouse seeing a specially trained mediator to help you resolve the issues surrounding your separation. This can only work if both of you are fully committed to the process and are open and honest about your circumstances. If all else fails, only then will the Court become involved.

One of the more difficult aspects of separation are the arrangements to be made about any children and how they will be affected by their parents’ separation.

The Court’s main or primary concern when faced with any dispute over the care of the children will be the welfare of those children. While it is understood that emotions and feelings can be running high, far and away the best thing to do is reach an agreement with your spouse about childcare arrangements. This has long been proven to have the least unsettling impact on the children.

If you can do this there will be no need for the Court to make an order and no need for the Court to become involved in the process. This will dramatically reduce your legal fees and distress to all, in particular your children.

If it is not possible for you to reach an agreement between yourselves directly or through solicitors, the next best thing to do is to engage in mediation if appropriate.

Whenever there are any disputes between yourself and your spouse it is always best to try to reach an agreement and use the Court as a last resort.

You and your ex-partner’s attitude toward your ongoing relationship with the children is crucial. It is important to avoid using children as a weapon within the divorce and to keep to any agreement that is reached. For example, the changing of contact arrangements at the last minute or being unreliable with timing will only further damage your relationship with your ex-partner and will have a detrimental effect on the children and their relationship with both of you.

Further, it is recognised by the Court and professionals who work in family law that any issues involving money and children should always be kept separate. For example, the contact between the children and the ex-partner should never be withheld if child maintenance has not been paid.

It is often assumed that a spouse’s conduct during the course of a marriage or their behaviour leading to the separation will have an effect on family finances. This is not the case. It is only in very rare cases that a party’s conduct will be taken into account.

When considering who should have what assets out of a marriage there is a duty on both spouses to give full details of their financial situation. If either party is dishonest or tries to hide assets, the Court can make orders for costs against the party trying to hide their assets.

One of the frequent difficulties in resolving financial matters is agreeing the value of the family’s assets. Normally this relates to the value of the family home, pensions and business interests.

To try to avoid a dispute about the value of the family home, an estate agent can be invited to provide a valuation, often free of charge and without obligation. This can be arranged jointly with your spouse to avoid delays and cost.

After property, pensions are often the second most valuable family asset, and care needs to be taken when dividing them. It is a complicated area and more often not requires a pensions expert to provide a report setting out how pensions can be dealt with fairly.

If you have an accountant or independent financial adviser who has helped you in the past, they may be well placed to assist you with the value of assets owned by you and your spouse including business interests.

While trying to finalise financial matters it is best to minimise the changes to the ongoing financial arrangements between you and your spouse without notice and before taking advice.

For example, emptying a bank account without notice or stopping standing orders can lead to acrimony and upset. This can make it more difficult to reach an agreement in relation to financial matters and is likely to lead to additional costs being incurred through having to use the Court process.

To arrange a chat with one of our team of specialists, contact us

David Anstee

Managing Partner / Head of Family Law

David, who is our managing partner, heads KWW’s Family Law department, dealing with divorce and separation and always looking to find the best, most amicable, least stressful route forward for clients.

David qualified as a solicitor in 1990 and joined KWW in 1997. He is an accredited specialist with Resolution, a qualified Family Mediator and an accomplished advocate.

As a business leader, David is on a mission to ensure KWW maintains its tradition for personal service while adding all the behind-the-scenes efficiencies that come from embracing new technology.

For relaxation, David enjoys slipping on the earphones and listening to some classic jazz and swing, and he can often be found rummaging around music shops for some rare Blue Note platter or other. He is learning to play the saxophone in a bid to become Surbiton’s answer to Stan Getz.

David loves his sport. He played cricket to a high standard and he is a tidy indoor bowls player. He prefers rugby to football but has a soft spot for Portsmouth FC.

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